courtesey of ca_e_me:

ESFJ
The Provider
Extroverted Sensing Feeling Judging

Warm-hearted, popular, and conscientious. Tend to put the needs of others over their own needs. Feel strong sense of responsibility and duty. Value traditions and security. Interested in serving others. Need positive reinforcement to feel good about themselves. Well-developed sense of space and function.

Famous ESFJs
William McKinley
Bill Clinton
Don Knotts
Desi Arnaz
Mary Tyler Moore
Sally Struthers
Terry Bradshaw
Elvis Stojko
Danny Glover
Nancy Kerrigan

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希望不只是新加坡,而是全世界:

earlier on skype video chat tonight, i asked XR to tell me a story. my excuse was that he owed me a story since i was feeling very down on the day of the solar eclipse, and he promised he would tell me a story and i didn't care how he hates telling stories slash jokes because i was throwing a hissy fit at the time. and XR, being the gentleman who stays true to his word, blanched hesitated for only a third of a second when i brought up my request, and began weaving a tale just for me:

"let me tell you the story of WY. once upon a time, there was a girl called WY who lived in New York. WY was an elephant, and she lived in the Bronx Zoo. she was a very happy elephant there, and would eat grass and bananas all day. and then one day, WY thought that she should go to singapore, because she heard that The Singapore Zoo was a very nice place to be. and WY had a lot of skills to offer to singapore; she could bounce a ball with her trunk very well. so the Singapore Zoo accepted her, and she came to singapore. so WY boarded a plane- wait, do elephants travel by plane? can they fit on a plane? i think they ship elephants by air, right?"

and the first thought that came to my head was: "don't they fit better on a ship?" but truth be told, i had no idea.



oh, XR, how i love you, your creativity, and your incredibly quick brain. :D

when i was 21 years old, i said the same thing to myself.

and to the person who submitted this secret: you go, honey, whereever and whoever you are.


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XR今早說:"我回我房裡,發現妳不在時... I felt a bit sad."

oh, 寶貝.

我真的願意.

活了24年,和若干個男孩子出去過...而你是第一個讓我願意嘗試遠距離戀愛的人.

在認識你之前,我也欣賞/喜歡/暗戀過一些男孩子...但是你是第一個讓我考慮到如何包括你在我未來計畫的人.

我可以很熱情,很大方...你卻是第一個讓我體會到愛火熊熊燃燒的滋味.

因為,我真的很喜歡你.

所以,我願意規劃時間,儲存積蓄,飛去令你驕傲的花園城市看你.

No way. The hundred is there.

The child
is made of one hundred.
The child has
a hundred langauges
a hundred hands
a hundred thoughts
a hundred ways of thinking
of playing, of speaking.
A hundred always a hundred
ways of listening
of marveling of loving
a hundred joys
for singing and understanding
a hundred worlds
to discover
a hundred worlds
to invent
a hundred worlds
to dream.
The child has
a hundred languages
(and a hundred hundred hundred more)
but they steal ninety-nine.
The school and the culture
separate the head from the body.
They tell the child:
to think without hands
to do without head
to listen and not to speak
to understand without joy
to love and to marvel
only at Easter and Christmas.
They tell the child:
to discover the world already there
and of the hundred
they steal ninety-nine.
They tell the child:
that work and play
reality and fantasy
science and imagination
sky and earth
reason and dream
are things
that do not belong together.
And thus they tell the child
that the hundred is not there.
The child says:
No way. The hundred is there.

--Loris Malaguzzi

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( !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! )

i'm now accepted to both Columbia University and Harvard University. i think i should be proud of myself.

take that, ex-boyfriend.

and again, to all of my friends: thank you. thank you so much for your help and support.